I don't think there is a right or wrong time to grow up. You have to be ready for it, that's all. Most people associate growing up with taking on responsibility and planning for the future, it seems to be the way we're expected to go. Many of my friends made the transition when they had their first child, and those that didn't have children seemed more…
If it is making you feel happy then it does not matter if you are grown up or not I reckon and anyway there are plenty of oldy people who do not seem very grown up and they are usually happy enough too so I think that you can be both or neither or just pick one and it is all the same anyway if that helps :¬D more…
It sounds like things are getting better and better for you so that is good and getting rid of people who cannot be bothered with you is never a bad thing I reckon :¬) more…
Have a nice birthday and be happy. 25 is a great age to be and is probably the one that you will look back on the most and say what a great time you had.:) more…
Happy Birthday and I am sorry that I missed it but the blog did not tell me for some reason! I hope that you did get some nice presents at least :¬) more…
i think the twitters are afraid to go too deep, so they just bounce chat back and forth as a way of seeming to be communicating when in fact they're just playing at it. more…
I think that if there is not much space then the little bit that is your own is much more important and so that is like my special box which is just mine and has got my stuff in it and nobody is allowed to even open it unless I say so. more…
Personal space can be like money, when you don't have any, you yearn for it, then when you get some you want more until eventually, you can't live without it. It's great to have some of your own space, but choose it carefully and use it wisely. more…
I would say that if this housemate owes you lots of money for rent and is also silly enough to be rude to you in your own house then it is time to get a new housemate! more…
I think you was very unhappy last Bunmas too and I am really sorry about that but I hope this year will at least be a little bit better even though it has had some really rotten stuff in it because it is always a good time to put a lid on stuff my friend Nick says and maybe Father Bunmas will just bring one thing that can make everything else seem more…
I think that probably if you take out the "Or"s in that poem and put in "And"s then it is more like how I would be if I had someone die that was one of the people I loved and so I hope very much that you are OK more…
this is beautiful I enjoyed reading it! I think everyone has had that moment when they realise "I shouldnt have let you in" I certainly have, but I couldnt it as well as you have in this poem. The more I read it the better it gets! :-) more…
no I do not think the world is ever better if people who think about things and care about things go away because then all that is left is the ones that don't more…
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In response to: "25 and growing up?" 26 days old
by jackfrost Pro
In response to: "25 and growing up?" 64 days old
by kath84 [Member]
will do, thanks. more…
In response to: "25 and growing up?" 64 days old
by kath84 [Member]
hmm. at the moment I think my mind might be over taking my body! more…
In response to: "25 and growing up?" 64 days old
by kath84 [Member]
thanks bun, that does help, indeed. more…
In response to: "25 and growing up?" 64 days old
by Tin-man [Member]
I don't think there is a right or wrong time to grow up. You have to be ready for it, that's all. Most people associate growing up with taking on responsibility and planning for the future, it seems to be the way we're expected to go. Many of my friends made the transition when they had their first child, and those that didn't have children seemed more…
In response to: "25 and growing up?" 65 days old
by jackfrost Pro
the age between your body and mind drifts ever further apart, more…
In response to: "25 and growing up?" 65 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
If it is making you feel happy then it does not matter if you are grown up or not I reckon and anyway there are plenty of oldy people who do not seem very grown up and they are usually happy enough too so I think that you can be both or neither or just pick one and it is all the same anyway if that helps :¬D more…
In response to: "enough is enough?" 167 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
It sounds like things are getting better and better for you so that is good and getting rid of people who cannot be bothered with you is never a bad thing I reckon :¬) more…
In response to: "25 and 24 hours" 172 days old
by kath84 [Member]
thanks both x more…
In response to: "25 and 24 hours" 175 days old
by Tin-man [Member]
Have a nice birthday and be happy. 25 is a great age to be and is probably the one that you will look back on the most and say what a great time you had.:) more…
In response to: "25 and 24 hours" 175 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
Happy Birthday and I am sorry that I missed it but the blog did not tell me for some reason! I hope that you did get some nice presents at least :¬) more…
In response to: "3D communication" 185 days old
by Tin-man [Member]
i think the twitters are afraid to go too deep, so they just bounce chat back and forth as a way of seeming to be communicating when in fact they're just playing at it. more…
In response to: "3D communication" 186 days old
by jackfrost Pro
lets hope that it comes back:) more…
In response to: "personal space" 191 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
I think that if there is not much space then the little bit that is your own is much more important and so that is like my special box which is just mine and has got my stuff in it and nobody is allowed to even open it unless I say so. more…
In response to: "personal space" 199 days old
by Tin-man [Member]
Personal space can be like money, when you don't have any, you yearn for it, then when you get some you want more until eventually, you can't live without it. It's great to have some of your own space, but choose it carefully and use it wisely. more…
In response to: "staying put" 223 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
:¬) Mushy and happy that sounds like a very good mixture and especially for a saturday! more…
In response to: "that's enough love for one day..." 277 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
I would say that if this housemate owes you lots of money for rent and is also silly enough to be rude to you in your own house then it is time to get a new housemate! more…
In response to: "the order of things" 287 days old
by kath84 [Member]
i am whirly! thanks more…
In response to: "the order of things" 292 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
I am very glad to hear that you are so happy now even if you are in a whirl :¬) more…
In response to: "words on a page" 309 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
Words are very handy though because otherwise we would all have to do much more waving our arms about :¬) more…
In response to: "putting the year to one side" 324 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
hurrah and happy new year! :¬) more…
In response to: "all things considered" 343 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
I think you was very unhappy last Bunmas too and I am really sorry about that but I hope this year will at least be a little bit better even though it has had some really rotten stuff in it because it is always a good time to put a lid on stuff my friend Nick says and maybe Father Bunmas will just bring one thing that can make everything else seem more…
In response to: "terrifying" 356 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
:¬D Now that sounds like lots of fun especially the cuddles I enjoy those a lot (I do like presents too though! :¬) more…
In response to: "reflection on the weekend" 372 days old
by kath84 [Member]
thank you x more…
In response to: "reflection on the weekend" 373 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
I think that probably if you take out the "Or"s in that poem and put in "And"s then it is more like how I would be if I had someone die that was one of the people I loved and so I hope very much that you are OK more…
In response to: "it's all over?" 385 days old
by jackfrost Pro
In response to: "sinking fast" 395 days old
by kath84 [Member]
yup, the search continues... more…
In response to: "sinking fast" 396 days old
by Kibitz [Member]
Mmm ..
I hope you find that lifeboat soon.
Any chance of finding alternative employment?
It certainly sounds like it’s time to move on.
Adam ... x more…
In response to: "random poem" 408 days old
by freshwaterpearls [Member]
this is beautiful I enjoyed reading it! I think everyone has had that moment when they realise "I shouldnt have let you in" I certainly have, but I couldnt it as well as you have in this poem. The more I read it the better it gets! :-) more…
In response to: "So, what have I done to deserve this, then?" 426 days old
by bunnybunbunbun [Member]
no I do not think the world is ever better if people who think about things and care about things go away because then all that is left is the ones that don't more…